Them:
"But you're smiling!"
Them:
"But you aren't skinny enough to have an eating disorder!"
Them:
"But I can't see any scars! Your wrists are clear!"
Them:
"You are just shy!"
Them:
"You just have an overactive imagination"
Them:
"But you don't have any real sexual experience! You can't tell!"
Them:
"It's all in your head!"
Them:
"You choose to be this way!"
Them:
"That's not real!'
STOP. STOP IT NOW.